1. Focus on Strengthening Your Relationship
As your child explores their path, a strong parent-child relationship can be one of the most important anchors they have. The Savior taught, “Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you” (John 15:14). Friendship is a central part of connection. Strengthen the friendship and trust you have with your child by spending quality time together, listening without judgment, and sharing positive, uplifting experiences that reflect Christ’s love. By creating a safe space, you open the door for meaningful conversations in which the Spirit can be present.
2. Remember the Power of Kind Example Over Words
The scriptures show countless examples of teaching by example. When Peter and John went about preaching the gospel, others took notice that they had "been with Jesus" (Acts 4:13). Similarly, when you live the principles of the gospel with joy, peace, and consistency, your example speaks volumes. By focusing on being Christlike in your daily actions—serving others, speaking kindly, and prioritizing your relationship with God—you provide a powerful, non-verbal testimony that your child can feel.
3. Let Them See Your Trust in God’s Timing
Trusting in God’s timing can be one of the hardest lessons. Consider the story of Hannah, who longed for a child and prayed for years before being blessed with her son, Samuel. Her faith and patience became her strength (1 Samuel 1). As a parent, trusting God with your child’s journey can lighten the burden of “fixing” things yourself. God’s timing is perfect, and His watch over your child is certain. When they see that you are at peace and have faith in God’s plan, it can give them permission to feel secure in their own journey.
4. Invite the Spirit into the Home
Sometimes we overlook the power of a home filled with the Spirit. Alma described the conversion of the people of King Lamoni, explaining how the Spirit “poured out his Spirit upon them” (Alma 19:14). Create a welcoming spiritual environment at home, filled with uplifting music, scriptures on display, or even moments of quiet prayer. Even when children aren’t directly engaged in the gospel, they can feel the Spirit’s presence, which may soften their heart over time.
5. Encourage Their Individual Journey with Faith
Each of our children has a unique purpose and journey. The Lord reminded Jeremiah, “Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee” (Jeremiah 1:5). Just as He knew Jeremiah, He knows your child’s unique needs, struggles, and strengths. Encourage your child’s search for truth, even if it differs from your vision. Be curious about their questions and explorations. By supporting their individuality, you show faith in God’s plan for them and build a relationship of trust that could eventually lead them back to the gospel in their own way and time.
Through this journey, remember that you are deeply loved and that God is aware of every prayer you offer. As you show love, patience, and unwavering faith, you create a refuge that your child may one day turn to. And always remember, God is actively working with your child—your efforts, combined with His infinite power, mean they are never truly alone. Take God's hand and love your children. Give them hope. Hope in a God who loves them. Hope to find a better future. Love them.
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